http://intj.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12?format=rss Tribe.net. Local Connections http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#1a1c7e5e-45ef-498a-9878-509ba83c483c Physical intimacy is rather an important aspect in reproduction. Besides, I'm under the thought that as long as the INTJ wishes to find himself/herself competent at the "competent lover" aspect, that individual is more than capable of achieving it, just as equally applied to everything else an INTJ may be interested in. Tue, 31 Mar 2009 23:49:14 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#1a1c7e5e-45ef-498a-9878-509ba83c483c $item.owner.firstName 2009-03-31T23:49:14Z http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#f6407a0c-b0ac-4cb8-85f7-e207454adc9a Physical intimacy of any sort is evil and disgusting. The only acceptable passions are intellectual. Fri, 04 Jul 2008 06:31:52 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#f6407a0c-b0ac-4cb8-85f7-e207454adc9a klaus 2008-07-04T06:31:52Z http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#db9d5372-bd88-4688-8d21-d33bfe2ff79d My most powerful/passionate experiences come when intimacy is at high levels and trust is inherent. Power switching is a big turn-on for me and so far, no complaints. My husband still is amazed that when we were dating I told him "Go ahead, try it elsewhere, you'll be back." A combo of my unlamented youth and that INTJ drive to be the best/have expertise is pretty tough to follow :) Tue, 12 Feb 2008 14:57:50 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#db9d5372-bd88-4688-8d21-d33bfe2ff79d holly 2008-02-12T14:57:50Z http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#b89a72d6-6f19-4ccc-98e3-30a6064a6168 Well, there's definitely a passionate energy inside me, which I actively express, that I enjoy receiving oral. You can ask any of my exes. Mon, 28 Jan 2008 19:00:54 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#b89a72d6-6f19-4ccc-98e3-30a6064a6168 $item.owner.firstName 2008-01-28T19:00:54Z http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#5154a12d-c7f4-4243-bd11-d5d6807d8fa9 For me it is impossible to say anything in general about how I am in intimate circumstances. It all depends on the partner(s) and the nature of our connection. I can be calm and lyrical and gently playful with a modest amount of lust. I can be very intense and passionate. I can be giving or selfish. I can be still and focused for hours. It is always a reflection of the broader connection I have with the other person. It reflects how we are together in other circumstances. If the relationship is robust and varied then the intimacy is too. It has come to be important to me to be able to express a wide range of emotion and intensity. Sun, 27 Jan 2008 23:19:57 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#5154a12d-c7f4-4243-bd11-d5d6807d8fa9 Coyote Sequoia 2008-01-27T23:19:57Z http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#44c71751-3cf5-466a-9f92-f415ec8fe46a I probably shouldn't be butting in because I'm an ENFP (though I'm mated with an INTJ). Most people feel "passion" is different from having a specific preference for a specific activity. Passion is an energy inside of you that you express. Then, that's a very NF thing to say. Fri, 25 Jan 2008 03:40:07 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#44c71751-3cf5-466a-9f92-f415ec8fe46a Fascinoma 2008-01-25T03:40:07Z http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#870836c2-4329-4f00-b478-ac65f4c58550 I just like to be blown. I guess you could say I'm fairly passionate about it. A girl is pretty much worthless to me (as a lover) if she doesn't go down pretty often. Wed, 23 Jan 2008 03:59:35 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#870836c2-4329-4f00-b478-ac65f4c58550 $item.owner.firstName 2008-01-23T03:59:35Z http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#3142e1a3-6e36-482e-bb3b-532724baaedb I'm curious how many of you consider yourselves passionate - between the sheets? I was definitely not very passionate in my early years (very horny though :-) but now in my 30's the last several years have been over the top. Maybe I'm just on a lucky streak but my recent encounters have all been amazing experiences of emotional and physical intimacy. So what say you? Do feel that spark when you jump into bed with someone? (or wherever you do your thing) Tue, 22 Jan 2008 06:14:56 GMT http://INTJ.tribe.net/thread/ce05df27-aa07-428d-b06d-cbb18ab7cb12#3142e1a3-6e36-482e-bb3b-532724baaedb Alex 2008-01-22T06:14:56Z