I just like to be blown. I guess you could say I'm fairly passionate about it. A girl is pretty much worthless to me (as a lover) if she doesn't go down pretty often.

For me it is impossible to say anything in general about how I am in intimate circumstances. It all depends on the partner(s) and the nature of our connection. I can be calm and lyrical and gently playful with a modest amount of lust. I can be very intense and passionate. I can be giving or selfish. I can be still and focused for hours. It is always a reflection of the broader connection I have with the other person. It reflects how we are together in other circumstances. If the relationship is robust and varied then the intimacy is too. It has come to be important to me to be able to express a wide range of emotion and intensity.

My most powerful/passionate experiences come when intimacy is at high levels and trust is inherent. Power switching is a big turn-on for me and so far, no complaints. My husband still is amazed that when we were dating I told him
"Go ahead, try it elsewhere, you'll be back."
A combo of my unlamented youth and that INTJ drive to be the best/have expertise is pretty tough to follow :)

Physical intimacy of any sort is evil and disgusting. The only acceptable passions are intellectual.